Self-esteem is the feeling or belief one has in oneself; it is the confidence in one’s worth. It is the confidence and faith we have, believing in ourselves, never giving up ourselves. Self-esteem is a significant factor in everyone’s life. It is what determines one’s decision or choice.
Low self-esteem is not having confidence in yourself, not knowing your worth. Low self-esteem makes people (especially those in relationships) make bad decisions. Most women are known to have low self-esteem. And these women need constant reassurance, compliment, and encouragement.
Thus it is easy to deceive women. Unfortunately, you cannot blame them; every woman lives in fantasy, they want to be desired, but then they forget that they are in the real world and expect men to treat them like an egg. All these make it easy and fun (for some heartless men) to deceive women.
Below are ways to deceive women easily:
How To Manipulate A Woman With Low Self Esteem
1. Always hold eye contact with them
Women with low self-esteem love it when men have eye contact with them. There’s still a connection (like chemistry) when a guy holds eye contact with a lady.
2. Un-divided attention
Giving women your attention means that they mean something to you. They hold it to their heart because you showed them that they mean something to you. When they talk about something that means so much to them, act interested, ask them questions, smile at whatever they think is cute.
This is one of the vital things a guy must “NEVER” forget; A guy must ” ALWAYS” compliment a lady. Woman with low self-esteem loves it when a guy compliments them. This is because it makes them feel loved, appreciated, and desired.
A guy on the move to playing on a lady’s feelings can’t forget this. For instance, when she dresses for a date, even if she is not dressed to your taste, do not let her know, flash her a sexy smile and say,” wow… you look hot” or ” beautiful.” Let’s forget this date and enjoy ourselves,” or you say, “baby, you look so sexy.”
Trust me, that lady will turn into a blushing mess or might even flash you a self-satisfied smirk. You have to call her” cute” sometimes so that she doesn’t think you are after her for her body. Don’t ever call her” fat” or” curvy” because she will feel insecure; instead, call her” beautiful,” it will make her happy.
Also, one of the things a guy must not forget if he is on the move to deceive a low self-esteemed lady is always to buy her gifts. It has to be something that has a special meaning to her. It must have value to her, ranging from expensive jewelry to birthday cards, pets like cats or poppies, organizing birthday parties, etc.
I tell you that she will never have a reason to doubt your feelings for her. She will love you more because you showed that she means something to you. Though she might challenge herself, you have to continually assure her that she means something to you ( even though you know she doesn’t).
5. Doing little things
Ladies love when guys do little things for them. Things that do not mean anything to you mean a lot to them; this is because you showed that she means something to you and that you are always paying attention to her.
For instance, if the lady in question likes drinking coffee or tea in the morning, always make sure you get it for her every morning, and if you can’t, have it delivered to her. Ensure that at least twice a week, you have a movie night with her.
First thing in the morning, send her a text, asking her how she slept. During the day, you text things you know will put a smile on her face, something that will make her long to see you. I bet you that she will think that she has you wrapped around her finger but won’t know it’s the other way around.
6. Play on her weakness
You can use her low self-esteem to your advantage. You can use emotional manipulation to get what you want from her. It is easy to make an insecure lady stay with you because she wants to do anything that will make you mad at her.
You can flirt with other ladies, and she won’t say anything because she loves you and would rather overlook your atrocities. It is more fun if she is rich; this is because you get to demand money from her, and she will give you because she loves you and doesn’t want to lose you.
Ladies love this a lot. It is one of the ways to get their heart. When you give them a nickname and call them only by that name, they will love you forever. Once you call them that name, they blush; this is because they love you.
You can call them names like; peanut, princess, cupcake, sweetheart, love, baby, darling, chip( some guys call them their girlfriends that), heartbeat, etc. A guy has to call his girlfriend one of these names (no girl doesn’t want to have her boyfriend call her a unique name).
A guy who wants to get a girl’s heart has got to know hi it way in the kitchen. Ladies find it cute when they see or hear that a guy knows his way in the kitchen. They love it more when he cooks in their presence.
I tell you that they can do anything to make you stay with them. Cooking for them doesn’t mean you are stupid or that you are a maid…no, it doesn’t. Instead, it means that you are willing to do anything to make that they fall into your trap and that you deceive them into doing your bidding.
Be A Gentleman
Always remember to act like a gentleman but don’t forget to use them since they are at your disposal. You need to ensure that they rely on, feel safe, and tell you all about themselves because, with it, your job will be a lot easier.
Your ( fake) love has to make them more insecure and dependent on you. With all these, you will be able to deceive as many women as you wish.